Just before Valentine’s Day I got a call from my grandmother.
“I have had a very long and happy life,” she said, “but I’ve received some bad news.”
She told me she had cancer all through her GI tract. Fearing she had only days to live, I asked her how much time the doctors had given her. “Six months or so,” she replied. She expected to live through one more summer. Gram was comforted knowing that she would have the chance to say goodbye to her family and friends and “clean out her bureau drawers.”
My mom, sister and I all made plans to visit her the following week. She was in a little bit of pain and didn’t have her usual pep, but otherwise she was the same Gram we all knew. We talked about art, saints, and the history behind the collection of Lusterware pitchers she was sending home with me.
We sipped Manhattans and ate cake with buttercream. She passed on a bit of her brilliance in art to Mazen.
We spent extra time saying goodbye, just in case this was our last visit, but Larbs and I had plans to visit again in the next month or so.
A few weeks later she began to take morphine for the pain. Yet, she still seemed fine on the phone, her mind sharp as ever. She would ask me about Mazen, the bakery and blog and telling me all the family news she had gathered.
But rather suddenly, her pain worsened, her medicine was increased (something she had resisted) and we believe she just decided to let go.
Gram was one of the smartest people I have known. She had a memory like an encyclopedia and could tell you all about Ancient Rome, the saints, or her own family’s history, such as when she pulled out this photo of her relatives in their swimming costumes.
She adored cocktail hour and Old Fashioneds. She could make a perfect apple pie.
She and my grandfather loved to entertain and held grand parties at their house complete with the best steak I’ve ever had and homemade ice cream they bought in Pennsylvania. She always served shrimp, smoked salmon and good cheese at her parties. And of course, there was always a silver candy dish filled with chocolates.
She was an avid gardener and lover of animals – she and Pop once had 4 dogs and 6 cats at one time.
Gram was extraordinarily creative, teaching art classes to her friends into her 90s and always working on a piece of her own in her art room.
She was a brilliant painter with a propensity toward the whimsical and unexpected. The Holy Spirit is present in nearly all of her paintings. Her works include watercolors and brightly colored canvases, and they have been featured in art exhibits.
When we were younger she would organize treasure hunts. One summer each cousin was handed the end of a string. We had to follow the string along boxwood bushes and discovered little trinkets along the way. It was most of the most fun adventures I remember!
Gram was also an expert shopper and our visits always included a shopping trip. “Get some good stuff!” she would say as she picked out a blazer or button down for herself.
Gram was insistent that there be no funeral for her. So instead we’ll be gathering for a memorial later this year to sprinkle her ashes with Pop’s.
Losing your last grandparent is the end of an era. When Pop died, we still went to visit Gram in her apartment, surrounded by their things. We could still write her letters and called often. It’s so sad that those days have come to an end. I am reminded of her throughout my house by the things she passed on to me – her paintings, beautiful silver, family jewelry, garden pots, vintage stemware and my great-great-great-grandfather’s woodwork in the form of a beautiful box and small chest.
We will miss you Gram!
Thank you for being a wonderful grandmother.
aimee says
So sorry for your family’s loss. I always think of how over the moon in love my own gram would have been with her great grandchildren. Mazen is lucky to have had a relationship with her, albeit a short one. Again, my condolences to you and your family.
Steph says
She sounds like an amazing woman…part of a spectacular generation. What a fine example of how to live a full and rich life. Thank you for sharing her story and your beautiful photos.
Alyse says
I’m so sorry or your loss Kath. It was always very obvious how much you adored her, and she you. What a lovely tribute to a great woman.
Stephanie says
Kath and family, I’m sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing glimpses of your grandmother’s vibrant spirit. I can see what a special woman she was. Peace to you all.
Jeri says
My condolences to your family. She seemed like she was always the life of the party. I hope on my next visit you have some of her paintings in the store.
Caitlyn says
So sorry for your loss, Kath!
Jonna Green says
Kath, I am so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful tribute for a lovely woman. You and your family are in my thoughts.
Tonya says
I’m so so sorry. Your grandmother always seemed like such a fun, bright, beautiful, classy lady. And her artwork is amazing!!! Her smiles seemed to come from the inside. My thoughts are with you, your mom and Larbs.
Ali @ Peaches and Football says
Your grandmother sounds like an amazing woman and what more can a person ask for than to life a life that leaves wisdom, love, and happiness in their wake? I think that’s one of the greatest treasures and you have such wonderful memories of her that you can share with Mazen. My condolences to your entire family Kath.
Ann Duncan says
Thank you so much Kath for sharing your beautiful grandmother with us. I have been reading your blog since 2008 and have loved seeing her in your posts. I know it’s crazy but I started crying when I read this. I have one grandmother who is 86 and another who is 90. I will be so sad when they leave us. Thank you for reminding us all how special grandparents are!! Prayers for your family’s peace in the days ahead.
Heather says
I’m so sorry for your loss. Your grandmother sounds like an amazing lady!
[email protected] says
I am so sorry Kath. It is so hard to lose your Grandparents. What wonderful wonderful memories you have –
Cara says
Kath, I am sitting here in tears, your tribute to your grandmother was so special. I have one grandfather left and I have made many trips down to see him recently. When you said end of an era, those are my exact thoughts. Not having a grandparent around will really change things, but you have those memories you will cherish! Hugs to all of you…
Bridget says
I’m so sorry for your loss. What a wonderful tribute to your Gram!
Dee says
May God bless you and your family, my heart goes out to you all. Your tribute was so moving and so very true. Grandparents make the world a better place.
Jessica says
I’m sorry for your family’s loss, Kath, and especial sympathy to your mother. What a wonderful, vibrant, creative person your grandmother was. You were lucky to have so long with her, and it’s special that she got to meet and enjoy Mazen, too.
Lacey says
Kath your story made me cry and reach out to my own grandmother. Thank you.
Irene says
My condolences to you and your family at this time of loss. Your blog post is a fine tribute to a life well-lived. May fond memories bring you some comfort in your sadness.
Tanya says
Kath, my heart, prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss my love.
Haley says
Trips to Gram’s were always some of my favorite posts to read. Treasure the hand-me-downs and the memories you have, for those will never fade <3
K says
So sorry for your loss. A beautiful tribute to an amazing woman.
emily says
So sorry for your loss. She seemed like a wonderful person.
Jennifer says
I’m sorry for your loss. She always seemed like such a vibrant, wonderful woman when you posted about her on your blog. Someone who would be really enjoyable to spend time with. You are right, losing grandparents is the end of an era.
Emily says
Wishing you and your family the best, Kath. I think you put it well – it is the end of an era. What a wonderful life she had!
Carol says
So sorry for your loss. Both my grandmothers passed away when my children were young, but they have lived on through stories, recipes and items that were passed down.
Lynda says
I’m so sorry to hear of your Grandmother’s passing. You wrote such a beautiful tribute. All the good memories that you shared will be with you all of your life that you can pass down to your children. So much love in your family.
Justy2003 says
So sorry for your loss, Kath 🙁 I’ve been a loooooong-time reader (pretty much since the beginning) and always looked forward to hearing about your visits with Gram and seeing her fun parties and artwork while you were there. She really seemed to live life to the fullest and I’m glad you got to spend time with her during the last couple months of her life. Thinking of you and your sweet family during this time.
Lindsay says
Kath, this is such a beautiful tribute. I really enjoyed learning more about her! What a talented, creative, and generous person she was. I just lost my mother to cancer last month and know all too well the grief your family is experiencing. I am so sorry for your loss, and I hope you keep sharing memories of her with Mazen as he grows older. She will live on in him.
Lauri says
I am so very sorry for your loss, losing the last living grandparent is so tough, especially when you had such a special bond as it seems you have. I am so glad she was able to meet and know Mazen. My grandmother passed away a little over 4 years ago and I still miss her everyday. Cherish the memories as I know you will.
Tracey says
She seemed like such a treasure. I always enjoyed reading about her on your blog. Peace be with you and your family.
Karen says
So sorry for your loss. What a beautiful tribute you have made to her.
Kaitlyn says
What a beautiful post. Thank you for sharing. It’s wonderful that you have such great memories of her!
Erin Hack says
I’m so sorry for the loss of your beautiful grandmother. What an amazing woman, and an inspiration to all. Sending virtual hugs during this difficult time.
Lindsey @ Simply Lindsey says
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss, Kath. I lost my grandfather last December and it’s such a difficult thing. I always admired your grandmother’s paintings that you’ve shown on the blog- what a talented artist! You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers!
jeannie says
This is a lovely tribute. She was clearly very loved. It’s remarkable how much that photo of you as a baby looks like Mazen! I’m very sorry for your loss.
Anne Weber-Falk says
Oh Kath, I am so sorry for you and yours. My heart aches for you. I have similar stories to yours. I always said Grandma Doloris was the cool grandma. She did things no one else ever did with us. She was an adventurer and I love her so very much. We lost Grandma Doloris in December. You have many stories to share with Mazen. Please take comfort knowing you will hold your Gram in your heart always and memories of her will be forever.
Erin @ Her Heartland Soul says
She sounds like an incredible lady. What a touching tribute. Sending so much love your way! <3
Johanna B says
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Gram. I have been reading your blog for a very long time and have enjoyed the posts you shared about your visits with ther. I will celebrate her love of life with you today and be thinking of you during this time.
Marla-Deen says
Beautiful. I love the happy memories and photos full of smiles. I hope they always make you smile.
Melissa says
I am so sorry to hear of your gandmother’s passing, but what a wonderful way to honor her. I feel like I know her, even though I’ve never met her. She seemed like a wonderful lady, and now, she’s panting in the best art stuido EVER.
Much <3
Melissa says
Thank you for sharing this – because of what you shared, I reached out to my owng grandmother last night, and walked around the yard with her, picking flowers. She told me the names of plants, and a few stories about my grandpa, who is in Heaven. It made me cherish her all that much. What a lovely legacy to pass on!
KathEats says
<3
lisa valinsky says
Kath, this tribute was beautiful and brought tears to my eyes. Sending prayers and peace to you and your family.
Nina says
What a beautiful tribute. I’m sorry, Kath.
Kori says
I am so very sorry for your loss, Kath. Just through KERF, I could tell what an amazing woman your grandmother was. She will live on through you, your mother, and your sister as you all have some of her beautiful qualities. May she rest in peace.
Lucia says
I’m so sorry for your loss Kath. Your grandmother sounds like a wonderful person , your tribute to her brought tears to my eyes, three out of four of my grandparents passed away many years ago, before I was married and had a son. Treasure the memories you have.
Marianne says
What a wonderful tribute to your grandmother. She will live on in you.
Amanda says
May you find comfort in the memories of your times together.
Meg Bollenback says
She sounds like an amazingly creative, smart, and beautiful lady. I’m sorry for your loss, but am glad that you have so many fond memories of her and your Pops.
Sara says
I am so sorry for your loss. This is such a beautiful tribute to her. I have lost grandparents as well, and I was particularly close to my grandma. It’s so hard, but you’re right; I think of my grandma often when I look at something, or even in a funny way, often when I’m parking my car and look over at the car next to me. My grandma and I were pulling into a parking spot once when I was in early teens (so before I drove), and I asked her how do you know how far to pull in? She told me she always looks at the car she’s parking next to and lines up her mirrors with theirs. Every time I glance over at the car next to me while pulling in, I think of her. It’s funny such a small conversation stuck in my mind so much all these years later, but it’s a nice little way to bring her into my thoughts!
Bizzle says
What an awesome woman! I’m so sorry for your loss.
Amanda says
I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my grandfather just two weeks ago and understand the grief you feel.
Caitlin says
I am so sorry to hear about your Gram, Kath. This is a beautiful tribute and you have such wonderful memories about her. I lost my grandma in May and you hit the nail on the head — losing your grandparent truly is the end of an era. You and your family are in my thoughts!
Sherilyn says
What a beautiful tribute! My heart breaks for you and your family. Your gram sounds like she lived a lovely, full life and you are lucky to have known such an amazing woman. I do hope your sister was able to visit her one last time. I’m so sorry for your family’s loss.
Andrea says
So sorry Kath. I always enjoyed reading about your visits with Gram. What a beautifully written tribute.
Rachel says
What a lovely tribute to your Gram. She seems like an amazing woman who lived life to its fullest. We can only all hope to be so lucky. I’m glad she got to meet your son, too. I’m sure that he was a real joy for her. I’m sorry for your loss.
Alissa says
I’m very sorry for your loss, Kath. She sounded like an awesome lady, and you’ve given her a fitting tribute <3
Kate says
I’m so sorry for your loss. Losing a grandparent is so difficult, especially when you have a special bond with them. It seems clear that you had a wonderful relationship with her. Treasure your memories!
courtney says
I am so sorry for your loss. May her spirit live on in all of you, always.
Jess says
That was a beautiful tribute to your grandmother. I am sorry for your loss.
Laura says
What a lovely post. I’m so sorry for your loss–she seemed like an incredible person.
Lorie says
What a beautiful tribute to your grandmother! She was always glowing in the pictures you shared of her throughout the years of your blog. She seems like such a vibrant, live-life-to-the-fullest, special woman! So sorry for your loss, Kath.
Emma says
Kath, she sounds just wonderful. Thanks for this loving tribute – I feel like I knew her, or would like to. I’m sorry for your and your family’s loss. My last grandparent died when I was in high school and I sometimes think how nice it would have been to have known them when I was an adult. I’m so glad she got to know Mazen.
Kaci says
Kath, I’m so sorry for your loss! She sounds like she was an incredible person.
Angie says
I’m so sorry for your loss. My last living grandparent – my amazing grandmother – died in the fall. We divided up her beautiful things into her children and grandchildren’s houses, and while I love having those reminders of her and my grandfather, there are times it is jarring to see “Grandma’s trunk” in my house. Enjoy your wonderful memories.
Marie says
I’m very sorry to read about your loss. Your Gram seems like she was a fantastic woman.
Melanie G. says
Kath, I am so very sorry. She sounds like a remarkable lady and clearly lived every ounce to the drop. That’s all we can hope and dream for – good for her! I’m glad you have wonderful objects to remind you of her. My grandmother died in November at 92, and I recently brought home a few of her things. I drink tea every morning out of one of her mugs, in fact! I’m surprised and delighted how these things keep her present and remind me of where she’d traveled, all she knew, the wisdom she shared. Reading about your Gram and her love for art & beauty reminded me of one of my favorite quotes:
We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
– Alain de Botton
Thinking of you,
Melanie
Mom says
Love the quote! Never read it before. Thanks for posting.
Susan Bellinger says
The love you shared with your grandmother was such a special thing. I’m sorry for your loss but know you will find happiness remembering her. I’m glad she was able to know Mazen and that you can share stories about her with him.
Fancy says
This made me cry, what a beautiful post. I’m so sorry for your loss. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts…
Bethany says
Alligator tears over here reading and seeing the photos. I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ve never met my grandmother – on either side – so I’ve never known what it’s like to have one. What a beautiful tribute you wrote to Gram. It gave me a taste of what it must be like to share in such a special relationship.
Teresa says
So sorry for your loss. Your Gram seemed to have lived a very full life, and those memories will stay with you, in your heart, forever!
Amy D. says
Lovely tribute, Kath…so sorry for your loss!
Jordan says
I’m so sorry for your loss, Kath. I loved seeing your visits with Gram on your blog. I also lost my last grandparent recently. I’m 32, but now it feels like my ‘childhood’ is really over. It’s a strange feeling.
Farah says
I’m so sorry for your loss Kath 🙁 My thoughts are with you and your family… This is a lovely tribute to your grandmother – all my best wishes.
– Farah
Jenna says
She sounds like a wonderful woman, I am so sorry for your loss.
My thoughts are with you & your family.
Jenna xo
Dina says
I’m so sorry for your loss!!
Anele @ Success Along the Weigh says
I am so sorry for your profound loss of this lovely woman. I thought when I saw the picture of her and Mazen drawing that it would be one to treasure. Thankfully she has passed many of her traits on to you and pieces of her will live on through your love of good, quality food, entertaining and shopping trips you share with us.
Grace says
Thinking of you and your family! What a classy woman your grandma was!
Christine says
Kath I am so sorry for your loss. When my grandmother passed away the whole family dynamic changed. It was like we all took a step forward to assume the role of the next generation. It also brought me a lot closer to my cousins who are much younger the my sister and I. We understood as the grandchildren of this amazing woman, what a special bond we all shared. In all the sadness of losing a loved one, there can still be blessings found.
Christine says
So sorry for your loss. She sounds like an incredible lady.
Pam K. says
What a beautiful tribute. It looks like you treasured the years with your grandparents and have some lovely memories to recall.
Edna Brown says
Kath, this is a beautiful reflection of your grandmother. She has also passed down her traits of love and generosity to your mother, Barbara Younger. Walk closely with my friend and your mother and your uncle because they will need all of our support. I am here for the family as Barb has been there for me. She has shared so much of you guys to me that I feel like I know you all. That is how much she loves you. Again, I love your memoir of your Gram.
KathEats says
Thank you Edna
Stephanie @ My Freckled Life says
I’m so sorry for your loss, Kath. She sounds like she was an extraordinary woman!
Lindsey says
This was a beautiful tribute. What a wonderful gift it was to have her with you for so long. Maybe someday one her paintings will hang in your grandchild’s room. So sorry for your loss.
Meghan says
Though I regularly read your blog, I have never posted a comment, but felt compelled to do so today. I am so sorry for your loss. Your gram reminded me very much of my grandmother who I was very close to. May your memories of her comfort you during this time of sadness.
Karen B. says
So sorry for your loss.
Robin says
Kath, I’m so sorry for your loss. What a moving memorial. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Cheryl says
I remember that she invited the youth group to come to the house for dinner when we had gone to DC on a work trip. She had planned a scavenger hunt around the yard for us. I also remember the angels she had painted on the ceiling in an area of cracked plaster. Such a lovely tribute to her, and such wonderful pictures you have. Thinking of you and your family.
KathEats says
That was such a special visit! Thank you
Liz Herrera says
I am so sorry for your family’s loss Kath. Thank you for taking the time to share.
Liz Herrera
Wendy says
What a wonderful tribute to your grandmother. I’m sorry for your family’s loss.
Kate J. says
The tribute to your grandmother was beautiful and brought me to tears this morning. Like others I feel like I knew her after years of reading your blog. I remember the distinctly different experience of losing my last grandparents, my father’s father. He was 92 and was a remarkably strong and independent man until his death. That loss was so much harder than any of the others that came before it knowing I wouldn’t have the experience of having a grandparent again. I hope the the legacy she leaves behind and all of your fabulous memories bring you and your family comfort.
Patty says
What a great tribute Kath! I will miss your posts about her, I always loved hearing about your visits with her.
Patty says
Also, can we buy any of her artwork anywhere? She was a very talented artist and I love the images of her work!
KathEats says
Unfortunately no, at least not at this time
Hope says
I am so sorry for your loss.
Kelley says
Your grandmother was quite a woman. Thank you for sharing her beautiful stories. So sorry for your loss.
Lauren says
Kath, this was such a nice tribute to your gram. She would love it I’m sure. I always loved the posts about your visits to her place and seeing all the drinks and food you guys would enjoy. You definitely got some of your entertaining flair from her! Wishing you guys all the best.
Stacy B says
Oh, Kath, I’m so sorry for your loss. Your grandma seemed to be an exceptional woman. I always loved reading posts about your grandparents, they had such a zest for life! You and your family are in my thoughts.
Joey says
Sorry for your loss. Every time your blog featured a visit to your Gram’s, I thought to myself what an awesome woman she seemed to be. She clearly lived a live full of love and adventure. xo
Kate says
What a beautiful tribute to a clearly extraordinary woman. I have also lost all of my grandparents. It is quite sad it makes me feel like I am part of the older side of the family now. I’m glad you have some wonderful memories to cherish.
Kristin says
Kath I’m so sorry for your loss. What a wonderful dedication you wrote for her. I also enjoyed seeing her pop up in your blog posts. What a fabulous lady she was!
Rosanne says
What a beautiful tribute, Kath. It brought tears to my eyes. My grandmother passed away last June and although she had been “gone” for years due to severe dementia, as you said, it really is the end of an era. So sorry for your loss. Sending you and your family good thoughts.
Katie @ Peace Love & Oats says
Oh now this has me crying and thinking of my own grandmother. I’m so sorry for your loss, Kath, but it sounds like you got to know her well and she had an amazing life and family. Keeping you and your family in my prayers.
Hannah @ eat, drink and save money says
So sorry for your loss. I only have on grandparent left too and this makes me want to call her and tell her how much I love her. Thinking of you and your family.
Sam @ Grapefruit & Granola says
Kath, I am so sorry for your loss. This is a beautiful tribute and it looks like you and your grandmother made many beautiful memories together. I’ll be thinking of you and your family <3
Alan says
Frequent reader, infrequent commenter:
Like the others, I am sorry for your loss. Though we all face our end at some point, it is so difficult to conceive of, difficult to accept, and difficult to talk about. Thank you for letting us, your readers and virtual family, be your support and sharing your grandmother. She seemed wonderful and may her memories give you solace in the coming days. Your pictures and stories are a treasure.
Lindsay says
So sorry to hear about the loss of your Gram. I have always enjoyed her appearances on your blog and reading about your visits with her. I will be thinking good thoughts for you and your family.
[email protected] says
Beautiful tribute, she is most definitely proud!
chris says
I had no idea. So so sorry for your loss and please give you Mom my condolences too. This was a beautiful tribute Kath. Your Gram had a wonderful life and I’m sure she passed on her strength and resilience to her grand daughters, and her great grand son.
Allison says
I always loved to read posts about your grandmother and especially loved her unique artwork. I’m always impressed when painters have a style all there own. She seemed like an amazing grandmother. My condolences Kath.
Erin m. says
Such a lovely post for remembering your grandmother. I’m sorry for your loss.
Kelly says
Kath, I’m sorry to hear of your gram’s passing. I, too, have been a longtime reader, and know how much your grandparents mean to you. I hope that you can find strength in the memories you have of her / with her. You are in my thoughts!
Jen says
Oh Kath, I’m so sorry. I know what you’re going through. My grandparents that I was quite close with died within 6 months of each other less than a year ago and it really does feel like the end of an era. I’ve never not had grandparents, it feels very surreal and strange. Big hugs, she sounds like an amazing lady!
Betsy says
Deepest sympathies to you and your family on your Gram’s passing. I’ve always admired her spunk!
Kelly D says
I am so sorry for your loss. As a long time reader of your blog and myself being close to my grandmother, I always enjoyed your posts recapping your visits with her…Todays post was a beautiful tribute to her.
Lori says
An incredible woman! You must be so proud of her as I’m certain she was of you. I’m sorry for your loss. She will live on.
Chelsea @ Designs on Dinner says
Sorry for your loss, Kath. It sounds like she had a wonderful life–she looks so happy in all your pictures!
Gwen says
<3<3 Thinking of you and your family. What a beautiful, loving tribute. xo
Teri says
Kath, condolences to you and your family and thank you for sharing such a warm tribute of your grandmother with us. As many have already expressed your grandmother was a remarkable women.
Cassie says
This was so beautiful. I never lost a loved one, and I wish there was something I could say that would relate to the situation. However, what I can say is that this is a real sign of love. You are such a wonderful person and your grandmother would be so proud of you.
Sara says
So sorry for you and your family’s loss, Kath. I enjoyed reading about your wonderfully talented grandmother on your blog. She had such a zest for life! I teared up a little reading this. Thinking about you and yours. What a touching tribute!
Maggie says
What a beautiful tribute! She sounds like an amazing woman. I’m so sorry that you have to go through this – but I hope you can find peace knowing you got to make as many memories as you did with such a special person.
Elisabeth says
Sorry to hear of your grandmother’s passing. My maternal grandma died my senior year of college – it felt like what you mentioned above regarding your last grandparent passing being the end of an era. I never knew any of my grandfathers & my great grandma (whom I was extremely close to) had died my junior year of high school. I still miss both of them like it was yesterday. I’ll be thinking of you & your family.
Randy says
I am so sorry to hear of your Gram’s passing, my condolences to you and your family.
Thank you for sharing such a wonderful story about Gram and your life with her; she will always be a very special woman and you will never run out of great memories of her. I am so glad that M got to spend time with her as well and he will have memories.
I lost my Gram when she was 90 and I will always miss her so much, she passed away just after taking an apple pie out of the oven; it was still warm when she was found.
I appreciate what you wrote Kath, it makes my day special learning about your Gram and remembering mine too. Tears are good!
Mom says
What a lovely story. Let’s hear it for grandmas and apple pies!
Kay says
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss! My condolences to you and your family. I always enjoyed reading about your visits with your grandparents, then grandma. They seemed like special people, and your grandmother was so very talented. I believe my husband met your grandfather at a dinner held at the end of his training with L M almost 11 years ago. He said he was a very nice man. You are lucky to have had such wonderful grandparents, and the memories of your times together.
Rebecca @ Strength and Sunshine says
She is a beautiful woman, Kath! XOXO
Mollie says
I had tears in my eyes and a lump in my throat while reading this. Grandparents are so precious. I’m so sorry for your loss! That was a beautiful tribute.
Kathy W. says
That was a beautiful tribute–it brought tears to my eyes. I’ve always loved your posts about your Gram. She was obviously a wonderful, larger-than-life person! I’m so sorry for your loss, and for your Mom’s loss of her mother.
Emily says
So sorry to hear of your loss, she lived a spectacular life. What a blessing. Prayers for peace and comfort as you lay her to rest.
val says
what an amazing tribute. she seemed like she really LIVED her life, she is inspirational! i’m so sorry for your loss.
Natalie says
I am so sorry to read about the loss of your gram. I lost my Nana last summer and it devastated our family. Your Gram sounds like an amazing woman who had quite a life. I am keeping your family in my thoughts as you go through this difficult time.
Nicole says
Very sorry to hear of your family’s loss. Sounds like she was a quintessential matriarch. May you find peace in the memories of your time together.
sheryl says
i am so sorry for your loss – Thank you for sharing her with us. She was a beautiful woman inside and out. May she live on through you and your family.
shaleen says
This brought tears to my eyes. Grandparents are such an incredible gift. My condolences to you and your family. Thank you for sharing a beautiful tribute–your Gram sounded like an amazing and inspiring person. May we all live such fulfilling and wonderful lives!
Laura says
Sorry for your loss. I’m thinking of you and your family today and the days to come.
Ingunn Markiewicz says
I’m so sorry for your loss. What a beautifully written tribute.
Theresa says
I’m so sorry for your loss. Losing Grandparents is so, so difficult. I know what you mean about the end of an era. I too, had a Gram that we lost 7 years ago and I still miss her just as deeply, but I can sense her here sometimes. You’re so lucky to have such wonderful memories and those things she passed down to you. Thinking of you and your family.
Bobbie says
I’m so sorry for your loss. Sounds like she left you with many happy memories.
Gillian says
What a lovely, classy, lady. I have always enjoyed your stories about trips to see her. Thinking of your family.
Laurie says
So sorry for your loss! Prayers for your family! What a wonderful tribute to your Gram!
Cyn says
Grandparents can be truly magical people in your life. My Gram was around the same age your grandmother when she passed. I think about her all the time and smile. She was awesome! It doesn’t matter how long you are lucky enough to have them…it’s never long enough! Peace to you and yours.
Claritza says
My deepest sympathies on your loss. Your tribute perfectly captures the unique, creative, intelligent, and caring woman your grandmother was. It was a privilege to know her.
Jess. says
Your Grandmother seems like an incredible woman who truly did have a long and happy life. I dread the day I have to say goodbye to my own grandmother. My thoughts are with you and your family. Beautiful tribute.
Ella says
Aww Kath!! There is nothing like a special grandma. I had one of those myself until she passed in 2010. They always stay with you. Hope you and your family are doing okay at this time of loss (but hopefully also a time of lots and lots of fond remembrance). This was a beautiful tribute to your grandmother.
Sarah says
So sorry to hear about her passing. She sounds like a beautiful lady. Praying for your family!
Maggie says
So sorry for your loss Kath. I hope you are comforted by your many wonderful memories.
Danielle says
So sorry for your loss!
Katie @ Balanced RD says
So sorry for your loss! Grandparents are such a blessing! It’s so great that you got to spend so much time with her!
Amanda - Small Home Big Start says
Oh Kath! I’m so sorry for your loss! I went through this last year with my grandfather and my husband lost his grandmother last month. It’s a heartbreaking time, but it also offers us a great chance to reflect on the good things in life too. It sounds like she lived a wonderful life and was lucky to have such a loving family. Wish you and your family the best during this difficult time.
Bridget Black says
praying for you! she is filled with BEAUTY!
ELM says
Kath, so incredibly sorry to hear about the loss of your Gram. Your post was so beautiful and bought so many tears to my eyes. Gram sounds like a truly incredible woman. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
xx
Ali says
So sorry for your loss, Kath!
mcsuze says
Thank you for sharing your wonderful grandmother through your blog. I’m so sorry she is no longer with you. You were fortunate to have her for so long and have so many wonderful memories. But I’m sure it is hard on your whole family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jeanie says
I m so sorry. I can tell by looking at her that she was special and one of a kind. I hope your memories bring you a lot of comfort. God bless Gram.
Dawn says
I don’t have a website, although I am years beyond you, but you have inspired me to eat healthy and enjoy life. I have followed your blog for years now and I would like to express my deepest sympathy to you and your family. You have some great memories with your Gram!
laura says
I’m so sorry. What a beautiful post.
Maribeth says
i’m so sorry for your loss. this is such a beautiful testament to her being.
Audrey says
I’m so sorry for your loss. Your grandmother sounds like an amazing lady. I’ve lost all of my grandparents in the last couple of years and I agree it’s the end of an Era and such an odd feeling. I’m so glad you have such great memories of her.
Colleen says
Hugs to you and your family. My thoughts are with you all. I have one grandmother left am tears reading this and thinking of her. Time is definitely limited with this amazing generation.
Michele says
I’m so sorry for your loss. Your Gram seemed like such a sharp, classy lady with a beautiful and vibrant smile. It must be comforting to have so many wonderful memories of her. You and your family are in my thoughts.
Jennifer Sprague says
Kath, I am so terribly sorry to hear of this great loss. I have enjoyed hearing stories about your Gram through the years and seeing the artwork you have shared. I was very close with my grandma and it was devastating when I lost her to cancer. I hope you and your family are able to find peace during this time. My heart goes out to you.
Melanie says
Beautiful tribute Kath, so poignant and really painted the picture of who she was. My heart is with you and your family!
Emily says
What a lovely tribute. Thinking of you!
laura says
I spent winter break with my 3 and 1 year old down in Miami with my 91 year old grandmother. What a gift for us to be in our 30’s and have had so many sweet years with our grandmothers. Thinking of you. Peace be with you.
Karen H. says
What a lovely and talented lady! I’m very sorry. Thank you for sharing beautiful pictures and memories of your dear grandmother.
Laura says
So sorry about your grandma, she seemed like an amazing lady!
Jenn Conklin says
Oh Kath, I’m so sorry to hear about your Grandma. You’re tribute to her is well done. I especially love the older photos. Thinking of you and your family.
Shelly says
I’m so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful tribute post you’ve written!
Elyse says
So sorry for your loss, Kath! I always loved hearing your stories of your Gram, she seemed like a very vibrant woman.
Maggie says
She sounds like a really awesome lady! My thoughts are with you and your family.
Lauren says
I’m so sorry for your loss Kath! Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Sandra says
Heartfelt sympathy to you and all your family Kath. Thank you for writing such a lovely tribute for us to share. She certainly sounds like an extrordinairy lady, whose legacy shall live on through her wonderful family.
Gina Langford says
What a beautiful tribute to a beloved lady. She sounds like such an accomplished and fun woman to grow up knowing! I wish I could have met her. I am so sorry for your loss but glad she’s in a better place now, with all the saints! Xoxo Gina
Lisa @bitesforbabies says
What a beautiful tribute Kath! This post brought out a ton of emotions for me since my grandmother just passed away a month ago. It was so so hard to see her wither away. She was such a strong and proud lady, traits that came to light even more in her last days. I miss her so much!
Erin says
I’m so sorry to hear of Gram’s passing, Kath & family. What a wonderful, remarkable woman–you were all so lucky to have her as long as you did, though I know it wasn’t nearly long enough. I feel privileged to have been able to get to know her even a little bit through KERF. Thank you for sharing her with us.
Laura says
What a beautiful tribute. I’m so sorry for your loss.
rachel says
So sorry to hear about your loss. It seems that you had a wonderful grandmother.
Natasha says
I’m so sorry for your loss….she sounds like an amazing woman who lived life to the fullest.
KL says
I’m so very sorry
Jo says
So sorry for your loss. What wonderful memories you’ll always have of your Gram.
Sara Guerra says
So sorry Kath. Such a touching tribute to your beloved Gram.
Heather says
What a beautiful tribute! You have moved me to tears, and planted some hopes via your memories. I now want to be a grandma who organizes treasure hunts for her grandchildren!!
Mom says
One of my responses to losing my mom this week is the same thought. I want to the kind of grandma Mom was. Watch out, Mazen!
Thank you all for your kind comments. My mom was nuts over Kath, and she loved the blog! My dad thought the blog was great too and told everyone he met about it. He’s wearing a KERF sweatshirt in one of the photos.
Kelly says
So very sorry for your loss Kath. Thinking of you and your family. What a great lady.
Ali says
I’m so sorry for your loss, Kath. What a lovely tribute to your grandmother. I always loved your posts where you showed us her artwork.
Laura says
I’m so very sorry for your loss. Your Gram seems like she led an amazing life, and I am sure she will be dearly missed.
Dani @ DaniCaliforniaCooks says
Thinking of you!
Victoria says
I feel inclined to respond to this post because I can relate so much. I just lost my grandfather a week ago and attended an absolutely beautiful, touching memorial for him this weekend. I guess the only difference is that my grandmother (his wife) is still alive, but it is SO hard to see her without him and just so brokenhearted. I think for us it is sad as grandchildren, but depending on your family’s relationship, try to touch base with others as much as you can. My mom is very sad as are the rest of her siblings, so try to comfort them and make them feel a bit better, as best you can. They will appreciate it and feel less alone in this tough time.
Pam says
Kath and family, very sorry for your loss. Gram was a wonderful lady and through your posts, felt like I knew her. She lives on in the lives of all she knew and loved.
Kim M. says
I am so sorry for your loss. It looks like she had a beautiful and very full life. How blessed she was, and you all are to have had such love and closeness.
Diane says
What a lovely tribute. How lucky you were to have had her in your life. She was a wonderful person and you will never forget her. She had a long, wonderful life filled with family and friends. Smile! She’s smiling too!
April P says
So sorry for your loss. I have lost a set of my grandparents and it’s very hard. Your write up about your grandmother is touching, to say the least. Thank you for sharing. I very much enjoy your blog!
Shari Latta says
Katherine,
This was a lovely tribute to your grandmother and the pictures you included really showed how special she was to all of you. I am so sorry for your loss and I know you will treasure the special items she sent home with you. I am thinking of you.
Shari Latta
KathEats says
Thank you Shari!
Julie says
I always enjoyed hearing about your visits with your grandmother. I loved seeing her artwork. So sorry for your loss. What a cool lady!
Angela says
What a moving tribute. I was tearing up as I read your post. I’ve been reading your blog for a long time and I always enjoyed reading about your visits to your grandmother. I also had strong bonds with my grandparents and I honestly think of them everyday. prayers and well wishes to your entire family.
Emily Watson says
As a long time reader, I recall many blog posts featuring visits with your grandmother. Your tribute is lovely and I pray for peace for everyone in your family during this time!
John says
Such a beautiful tribute to an amazing woman! What a wonderful family she had and from your post you can tell she LOVED life and lived it to its fullest. My sincerest condolences and prayers for you during this time. Thank you for sharing these beautiful memories with us.
Kavi says
What a beautiful post celebrating such an amazing woman! It’s clear how much she meant to you and your family. I loved reading about her, and I hope to live a life as full as hers – what a great inspiration to all of us!
mollie says
beautiful tribute, kath. your gram always seemed like someone straight out of a book – even more so at the end.
Alex @ True Femme says
Oh Kath, I am so sorry for your loss. Your grandmother seemed like a really bright spirit and a very unique and strong woman. Sending you and your family lots of love and hoping she rests in peace <3 <3
Jenny says
I’m so sorry for your loss. Your post is beautiful. I hope that once the rawness of these first days and weeks pass, you will take great comfort from the memories of your last special weekend together. My Gram (I called her Nan!) passed very unexpectedly almost a year ago and I know I would have loved to have a proper goodbye. Share happy memories and funny stories with friends and family and try to smile when thinking of your Gram. Take care of yourself and your family.
Best wishes,
Jenny (long time reader but first time poster,- Dublin, Ireland)
Jamie Zimmerman says
I just started reading your blog a couple of months ago. I really enjoy the nutrition aspect but love the personal influence as well. I was touched and saddened by your loss. 🙁 Our grandmothers are such special angels in our lives. Happy for you that you had “great one”.
So sorry for you and your family’s loss.
Jamie
Kim says
I am so sorry for your loss – it sounds like your Gram was an amazing women and held a special place in your heart . I hope all of these wonderful memories will never fade and they will be carried on for future generations !
robin says
Oh I’m so sorry, I always enjoyed hearing about Gram.
Kelly Ann says
Best tribute ever…way to honor your Gram….
Sarah @ RunningChickago.com says
your grandmother left you with such beautiful memories. precious. 🙂
you & your family are in my thoughts.
Katie says
I’m so so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful tribute about Gram.
Silvia says
I’m behind on my blog reading and just wanted to tell you how beautifully you expressed and shared your grandmother with us. I felt like I knew her too…so sorry for your loss. This part of “life” has got to be the hardest for us the living. I particularly loved her art work you shared with us, the fact that you made a point of staying in touch thru letter/cards, visits and having Mazen share moments with her…what a heartfelt memorial . Thank you for sharing with us readers. You are a loving grandaughter Kat.
rachel says
I’m so very sorry for your loss. I always loved reading about your visits with Gram, she seemed to be the most lovely, magically-spirited woman, and I always kinda wanted to join you all! 🙂 Take comfort in your memories
Kim from MN says
So sorry for your loss! Losing the last grandparent is indeed hard, my thoughts are with you. Your grandma sounds so inspiring, though, just reading about her makes me want to do more, read more, maybe find a way to organize a string treasure hunt for the little ones of my friends! She gives us all hope for a bright old age. You gave her a great tribute, and I love the idea of a summer memorial. God bless!!
Claire D says
Beautiful, beautiful tribute. Sending love! Looking forward to seeing you at Davidson in June. xoxo
KathEats says
Thanks Claire! See you in June!
Kelli says
So sorry for your loss Kath. It’s been very clear throughout the years of reading your blog that your grandmother was a very special person and a big part of your life. Thinking of you and your family. Hugs!
Anonymous says
Your grandmother sounds like one hell of a grand old dame. She will surely be missed, but most definitely remembered. Pass on the memories to the next generation so she can go on forever.
Lindsey says
What a beautiful post about a beautiful woman. She was clearly an amazing woman who knew how to entertain, create, and love her family – lessons that have clearly been taken up by her grandchildren! Sending lots of love to you and your family.
Anna says
I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. What a beautiful life she had! You can tell how much she adored you in the pictures. Sending prayers to you and your family.
Edee Stegner says
I am a resident at Edenwald. I often say what a privilege it was to know both of your grandparents. I know you will pass on those lovely memories to your children. We feel your loss too.
KathEats says
Thanks so much for your comment Edee
Mom says
Hi Edee,
We will all miss visiting Edenwald and all of you. My best to everyone! Barbara
Monique Thormann says
I am a resident at Edenwald and I have known your grand mother only a few years but she became a very good friend to me and my husband . I will miss her a lot and also her good humor and her love of life
KathEats says
Thanks so much for your message
Grace Froelich says
Kath
I met your grandparents 35 years ago when they adopted one of several dogs from Animal Rescue, inc. They always said that they were the lucky ones to find such wonderful dogs.
We remained friends over the years. Many times they would invite my husband and I out to dinner or to their lovely home. A stroll through your grandmothers gardens was so enjoyable.
Children and grandchildren always came up in conversation.Your grandparents were so proud of all of you.They were amazing people and they will be sorely missed.
Grace Froelich
Founder
Animal Rescue, Inc.
KathEats says
Thank you so much for your kind words and comments Grace!
Maria says
Kath, I’m just reading this……..
I am so sorry to hear of your Gram’s passing, my condolences to you and your family.
Thank you for sharing such a wonderful story about Gram and your life with her.